From Heather Quinto
May 17, 2016
A couple of people asked me to channel to find out who their spirit guides are. Since I don’t do readings anymore, I won’t be personally answering those questions; however, I won’t leave you hanging! I am going to teach you how to find out yourself 😀 Exciting, right? I know, I know. I’m not handing you the answer that you want. I’m gonna make you work for it 😉
This is an old post I made about communicating with your spirit team, but I added a couple tweaks to it:
It’s imperative to have good communication with your spirit team in general. They’re your team! Your main homies. They got your back, and sometimes saying what you want and need is all it takes.
I want you to know that you’re in full control over your life. NOT your guides and NOT your angels. Many people ask for their guides to allow this or for their angels to allow that. No. They control nothing. It’s all you, honey bunny! That can be both releasing for you and scary hahaha! You’re in full control over your life, and YOU get to decide where you want it to go and how. You’re in full control over your contracts and life purpose. You can change those things at any given time. You’re not stuck to one purpose all your life.
Want to change a contract? Want to open up your abilities? Wanna change something about your life? Want to know the names of your guides? I suggest having a “meeting” with your guides.
Step 1: Self-preparation
Think about what it is you want to talk about with them. What goal are you trying to reach? Are you wanting to learn a name? Be open to the different ways you may get the message. Maybe they might come to you in your dreams to answer you. Get into a meditative state in order to relax your mind and be open to communication.
Step 2: Call out to them!
Take a moment where you’re left alone in a quiet room. You don’t need to channel in order to do this. Call out to them out loud and say, “I’m calling all my guides and angels here for a chat. I want you all here now so I can get to know you better.” You don’t have to say exactly that, but something along those lines. It’s imperative to be assertive. I’m not saying be a bitch hahaha! Just be firm in your actions. I’d strongly suggest not saying something like, “uh… Can my guides and angels come? If they want.” That leaves the door open for them to not show up if they don’t want to.
Step 3: Talking to your spirit team
Tell them about your concerns, goals, wants, and needs with them. Tell them what it is you want from them and how you want them to help with that. Want to open up your abilities more? Tell them to do that for you, and tell them where you want to be with your abilities. Give them a time when you want to have this goal accomplished, and say something like “I want to be here with my abilities in 3 months time, so if we work together, we can get there. Start opening me up more to these abilities at a pace where I’d be at my goal in 3 months.”
You also don’t have to talk about anything serious. you can just talk about what is on your mind or how your day is going. While you’re talking to them, pay attention to how your body feels and your surroundings. Does the energy in the room feel different? Are you getting chills? Goosebumps? Are you feeling intense love? What about signs? Are you being sent any signs? If you feel something sent to you is a sign, and that’s your first initial reaction, then it most likely is a sign from them.
Step 4: Listen to your spirit team
Again, you don’t have to channel, but if you want, tell your team to give you a sign. Why are you keeping this contract? Why haven’t your abilities opened up more? They have their reasons too, and it could be for your protection or because you originally planned to not go down this path. Meet them half way and say “communicate with me through a dream where I’ll understand” or “Give me a sign where this means ‘yes’ and that means ‘no’.” It may take a day or two, but be on the look out for a sign. You can use other forms like a pendulum or a card reading.
One good exercise is to lay down and have your palms facing up. Tell them which side means “yes”, which side means “no”, and perhaps maybe a tap on the chest means “maybe”. Ask them simple “yes” or “no” questions and tell them to touch you on the appropriate hand for the answer. It may feel like a tingle, a vibration, or you might feel cold or hot on that spot. It may take them a few minutes, but be patient and ask the question again if a few minutes past without an answer.
Step 5: Give thanks
Thank your spirit team for everything they have done and tell them you love them! They’re not here to hold you back or to keep you from things. They’re here to help guide you, protect you, teach you, heal you, and love you. They’re like a loving parent, and sometimes you need to tell your parents that you’re all grown up and ready to spread your wings!